I’ve heard that often,
people are their own worst critic. Maybe so, but I wonder if whoever coined that phrase ever took their first piece of work to a writing workshop. That, my
fellow writers, can be a genuinely terrifying experience. And to be honest, it
should be.
Fear, in my opinion, can be a good thing, and when we face the things that scare us, we give
ourselves an opportunity to improve ourselves. But that means change, and we
are naturally wired to approach change cautiously, if not avoid it. And the
more drastic the potential change can be, the more we resist and give in to the
fear.
I know a number of
writers who have written poems, stories, novels, and so forth, and a few
shelves in their house carry their own personal works – and you will likely
never read any of them. Why? Because they have never shared this writing with
anyone other than their parents, siblings, or a few close friends, and cringe
at the thought of going beyond that group. That group of people is a safe space.
In that space, the positive is highlighted, the negative avoided. How many
drawings have we made as kids that received a prominent place on the
refrigerator, regardless of the quality? The same thinking applies to the safe
space. Within that exclusive area, the writer is safe, but do they ever progress? The lack of
critique means that writing misses a great chance to improve. And unless those first drafts
were absolutely magical, they will never get published.
Maybe that’s okay.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with writing stories for the satisfaction of
writing them, and nothing needs to be published in order to be an achievement.
But one benefit of workshopping a piece is learning how to make the next piece
more powerful. We can write amusing stories, but with some review and revision,
the next story can make readers laugh out loud. And it’s even more fun when we
turn a sad story into something that makes strangers tear up.
But that means facing
the fear. The big fear. The workshop fear. The “I might not be as perfect as I
thought” fear. That means exposing your words to people who aren’t part of your
safe space, and who have no interest in putting your work on their
refrigerator. For a long time, I thought… actually, I was all but positive I ranked
among the best authors in my group of friends, if not the greater Chicago area. I was the hidden literary gem waiting to be discovered. Who could ever match the warmth of my
heartfelt stories? Who would dare try to challenge my prose, my lyrical; poetic narrative?
A writing workshop
would do that. That’s its job.
For the longest time,
I avoided such workshops because in the back of my mind, I knew that once I sat in
front of such a group and presented my words, I would no longer be as good as I
thought. I would be forced to see the long road ahead, and it would be
difficult to look at. I won’t bore anyone with the story of my first workshop in
this blog, but here’s a link to a draft of the short story, Writer’s Block,
that explains it all. And I never regretted it.
Once we face these
groups and their constructive criticism, we start seeing how we can
improve our writing, make our stories more powerful, and get more out of our
words. And even if we decide that we never want to publish a thing, we build a
confidence that our writing is improving, and that we deserve that place on the
refrigerator.
Well said Jim.
ReplyDeleteWorkshops are a wonderful resource.
The benefits are endless, for the writer and the reader.
Thank you. Once you make it past the fear, workshops really pay off.
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